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May 25, 2016 0 Comments

BLACK WOMEN AND STRUGGLE LOVE

Black women should immediately end our fight for the Black man. Before you get your pitchforks and matches hear me out. The Black community has been so engrossed with the protection, uplifting and advancement of the Black man that it has totally unequivocally neglected the Black woman. We Black women have made the Black man our burden and load. As with all loads they have become heavy and we can’t carry them anymore. Through slavery, rape, miseducation, ridicule, murder and abandonment Black women have taken it all without a protector. We believed the lie that it is our responsibility to […]

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May 14, 2015 1 Comment

WHY MEN SHOULD NOT BE FORCED TO BE FATHERS.

Deadbeat Dads, few labels in our society are more contemptible. The thought of a man not providing for his offspring is incomprehensible to most, especially to those of us who have experienced the joys of raising children. Just below deadbeats on the blame pie for the ills of society are single moms. Despite the horror stories connected to women having children out of wedlock or at least in a common law marriage situations, women continue to reproduce without benefit of clergy at an alarming rate. If you’ve been anywhere near a talk radio station or a Facebook discussion group in […]

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March 11, 2015 0 Comments

NICE GUYS AINT SHIT!

Attention nice guys, you ain’t shit! Now what I mean by that is, if the first thing people say about you is, “he’s a nice guy,” that means that there’s nothing else remarkable to say about you. Being nice simply means you’re not an asshole. Now don’t get me wrong, nice is a preferred quality over being an asshole but it’s not nearly enough in and of itself. Being nice should be a condiment not the main course. It’s not even important enough to be the icing not the cake, it’s more like the cherry on top. You want the […]

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January 12, 2015 11 Comments

How Weaves Are Destroying Black Relationships

WEAVE, it all seems so harmless, a pony tail here, a sew-in there.  This simple but lucrative industry has single handedly destroyed the black relationship and family structure.   The effects of heroin, alcoholism and crack where were painfully obvious.  As a community we were aware of the enemy and were able to fight against it.  Through it all we were able to maintain our family structure and core values but weave is different.  Weave is subtle.    In the past 20 years the black relationship has hit many icebergs that have left us unable to move forward.  It appears that the […]

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August 18, 2014 0 Comments

Addicted to FACEBOOK

When asked about the social networking site Facebook, most will try to downplay the role that it plays in their day to day lives. Lately, I have been thinking about this on a deeper level.  Why is Facebook so addicting? Why do we desire to know what others are doing every second of the day? Why do we seek the validation of people we otherwise would never interact with? Is the non-virtual world not enough?  On the surface, Facebook is a useful tool for connecting and sharing stories, pictures, etc. with friends and family. It is also a great networking tool. One […]

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August 7, 2014 1 Comment

WHY WE CHEAT 80/20 2.0

  I am so sick of being constantly bombarded by this barrage of infidelity scandals.  It seems like nothing leads to the horrors of divorce, separation and broken families faster than traditional marriage.  With that being said, yes I believe in committed one on one relationships and to be clear, I’m not endorsing polygamy as the alternative here.  I’m still fully convinced that the dynamic of two people raising a family works best and is most conducive to survival of our species.   So now you’re probably wondering what kind of traditional marriage I am speaking of that ruins couples […]

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August 4, 2014 3 Comments

Surviving The GIRL CODE

He had her at hello: Keisha found herself gazing up at the tall man and smiling like a school girl as he went on about the new exhibit in town.   She suddenly realized she’d been holding her breath, transfixed on his smooth skin and pearly white teeth until he finally asked her if she’d like to accompany him to the History Museum on Saturday.  After she agreed and contact information was exchanged, Matt didn’t just excuse himself to mingle, much to the chagrin of the other ladies in the happy hour crowd.  He actually sat with her, paid for her drinks […]

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June 6, 2014 0 Comments

CONTROL, WHO HAS IT?

“With great power comes great responsibility” –Ben Parker, Spiderman- There was once a time in the not too distant past when women had to act like ladies and be discreet and modest in terms of our sexuality.  Today, women are much more vocal about our sexual dealings.  In this liberated, “non judgmental” land, we women have become increasingly comfortable and free with our sexuality. We have gained the indisputable right to choose motherhood or not regardless of the wishes of our male partners.  No one can tell us what to do with our bodies.  To some this is great, while others disagree and struggle with […]

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June 2, 2014 1 Comment

THE HYPOCRISY OF THE “BLACK POLICE”

I never knew exactly how Black/African I was until I joined Facebook. FYI my parents were born and raised in Puerto Rico like their parents, grandparents etc. I AM Puerto Rican, it is how I identify myself.  My features and complexion indicate that somewhere in my ancestry there is African, but let’s not forget Spaniard and Indian which are the other components that make up “Puerto Rican.” My blood relatives range from as dark as Lupita N’yongo on my father’s side to blonde and blue eyed on my mother’s. I’ve never been fond of labels or the endless debate of a […]

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Bad Attitude
October 25, 2013 2 Comments

Black Women Have Bad Attitudes: Myth Busted!

MYTH:  It’s a well-known fact that Black women have bad attitudes. They don’t smile, they have sharp tongues, and they’re bitter. And if they think they look good, they won’t even speak. INQUIRY:  Who are the people who make these accusations against Black women? Clearly not their children who are the beneficiaries of all the self-sacrifices they make in the name of motherhood including suspension of their social lives.  Certainly not the elderly parents who they take in and care for while others get placed in rest homes. Not their employers who frequently rave about their high-quality hard work and […]

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